The photographer's guide
what we look for
The pretty venues are easy to find. What we look at is different: what the place looks like at four in the afternoon in October, where everyone goes when it rains, and whether there is somewhere beautiful a short walk from the party.
Here is what we check, in the order it matters on the day. Every venue we mention below is one we have shot, so you can open it and see the point in real weddings.
1
Outdoor ceremonies look best when the sun is low or behind trees, not straight overhead. Ask the venue what time ceremonies usually start, then look up sunset for your date. When we build your timeline, we put the portraits in the best light of the day.
Inside, windows beat chandeliers. A getting ready room with big windows does more for your photos than any amount of decor.
See it at: Ceresville Mansion, The View at Bluemont, Big Cork Vineyards
2
Whatever is behind the two of you is in every photo of your vows. Trees, water, hills or a clean wall all work. A parking lot, a road or a row of tables does not.
On a tour, stand where you would stand and look past where your guests will sit. That is the view in your ceremony photos.
See it at: Kurtz's Beach, Historic London Town & Gardens, Raspberry Plain
3
Every outdoor venue says it has one. Ask where the ceremony actually goes, how long the switch takes, and when they make the call. A chapel, a barn or a covered pavilion is a real plan. A tent you rent at the last minute is a different conversation.
Use the rain plan filter in the finder above to see the venues that list an indoor or covered backup.
See it at: Bluebird Manor, Historic Rosemont Springs, Silver Swan Bayside
4
This is where your family and friends are with you before anything starts, and some of our favorite photos of the whole day happen here. Look for windows, room for everyone who wants to be there, and a door to somewhere pretty for a first look.
If the venue has no suite, a nearby hotel or house works too. Tell us where and we plan the morning around it.
See it at: Ceresville Mansion, Springfield Manor, Poplar Springs Manor
5
The best portrait spot is one you can walk to. When it is close, you get all the portraits you want and still get back to your party.
Ask the venue which parts of the property you can use for photos. Gardens, a tree line, a field or a dock all count.
See it at: Glen Ellen Farm, Airlie, Tranquility Farm & Winery
6
Most venue tours happen at noon. Your reception happens at night. Ask what the room looks like after dark, and look at real weddings there instead of the venue's marketing photos.
String lights, candles and a dance floor in the middle of the room all help. So does a venue that lets the party spill outside.
See it at: The Winslow, Catoctin Hall at Musket Ridge, Walker's Overlook
7
A venue's biggest number is usually standing room or no dance floor. Ask for the seated number with a dance floor, and pick a room your guest list fills. A full room looks like a party in photos. A half empty one does not.
The guest count filter in the finder uses the largest number each venue lists, so treat it as a starting point and confirm on your tour.
See it at: 48 Fields Farm, The Mansion at Strathmore, Bowling Brook Mansion
8
When there are rooms on site, getting ready, the first look and the late night photos all happen in one place, and nobody is driving home at midnight.
Use the stays on site filter to see the venues that list rooms, cottages or an inn.
See it at: Airlie, Springfield Manor, Chesapeake Bay Beach Club